WHAT IS DISCUSSED THROUGHOUT SEX COACHING?
It is about what kind of physical approach you actually like.
How fantasies, physical touch, emotions, and the nature of your relationship with your partner mentally arouse you.
It is also about how you experience sexual arousal in your body and how your body, and especially your genitals, respond to sexual stimulation. All these aspects carry a sense of shame in our society. Hence, why we hardly ever talk about it. Furthermore, our language lacks sufficient differentiation regarding sexual sensations. However, an intensification of sexual sensations arises once we feel into it. Which means we do not necessarily require stronger stimuli from the outside.
We have different receptors for pleasure in our body, most of which are in our skin, and they are capable of intensive sensations, much more than we have ever experienced. For women in particular, it is oftentimes the case that receptors of the genital area produce pain rather than pleasure or are even numb. Usually, this is not caused by the actual touch but is connected to old feelings in this area. The beauty of our body is that it can regenerate itself to a great extent and this aspect applies to the possibility of our pleasurable sensation as well.
This approach of rediscovering pleasure in your body as part of a sex therapy is quite different from medication or even surgery. It should be mentioned though, that during the time of joint conversations with a sex therapist, the ways are merely pointed out. Practicing and trying out only happens within the safe surroundings of your own home.